Giving Thanks

Sometimes the only thing we can see in life is the hardship or roadblocks thrown in our path. It is easy to lament what we don't have or what we want and can't have. Today I was reminded of what is truly important - that which we have been blessed with in our lives.

I was fortunate to spend Thanksgiving with my parents who have, in my mind anyway, defied the odds and thumbed their noses at the medical world.

I spent it with my three sons who have had to grow up pretty much without their father during a time when they would have needed him most. My heart swells pride when I look at them. I am amazed at how grounded they are despite everything.

Admittedly, I wish I had more money although I don't wish for unimaginable wealth, just comfort and breathing room. Although I am always one more unplanned expense away from financial chaos, I still am able to provide food and shelter no matter what I have to do in order to cobble it together. I am thankful for that.

I am thankful for those of you who are reading this. I am thankful for my true friends who hold me up when I cannot stand and who are honest and caring and give their friendship unconditionally.

Whatever you celebrate this time of year, if you celebrate, I wish you peace, health, happiness and light.